What to Expect During Your Initial 15-Minute Matchmaker Call
- nicolejamesescobar
- Oct 14
- 4 min read
Embarking on the journey to find love can feel overwhelming, but it begins with a simple step: a brief, 15-minute call with a matchmaker. This initial contact is crucial as it sets the tone for your matchmaking experience. In this post, we will guide you through what to expect during this call, why it matters, and how you can make the most of it.
The Purpose of the Initial Call
The main aim of this 15-minute call is to establish a connection between you and your matchmaker. Think of it as an introductory meeting that confirms your identity and provides the matchmaker with a better understanding of your relationship goals. This is a free call that allows you to be added to the matchmaking data base, once the follow up questionnaire is completed.
During this call, the matchmaker will ask key questions to learn about your relationship ambitions, personal preferences, and any particular criteria you might have. This is your time to articulate what you are looking for in a partner—whether that’s shared interests, specific values, or lifestyle choices. For instance, if you prioritize a healthy lifestyle, mention that you enjoy hiking or cooking healthy meals. These details help the matchmaker find the best matches for you.
What to Prepare for the Call
Preparation can make your brief call more effective. Here are some tips to help you get ready:
Clarify Your Goals: The matchmaker wants to make sure that you are ready for marriage. Meditate on if you are truly ready for this next step. Can you share your life with a marriage mate? Have you prayed to Jehovah for guidance?
Identify Key Qualities: Consider the traits you look for in a partner such as a good sense of humor, a love for preaching, or the desire to pioneer. The more specific you are, the better the matchmaking process will be. Where do you see yourself? Do you want to have children or are you focused on taking a leadership position in Jehovah's organization?
Have Questions Ready: Use this time to ask about the matchmaking process, like how they select potential matches or what steps come next. Having your questions prepared shows that you are engaged and serious about your search.
The Call Experience
When the call begins, your matchmaker will greet you warmly, creating a welcoming atmosphere. They will explain the purpose of the call and may share a bit about themselves to make it feel more personal. Currently, we have two matchmakers, Nicole & Karen. Both speak English and Spanish, are married, and are aware of what it takes to be successful in marriage. They are baptized members of their local congregations and have years of experience in relationships.
As the conversation unfolds, expect questions regarding your relationship history, what you seek in a partner, and any non-negotiables you might have. Research shows that nearly 75% of successful matches come from effective two-way communication during initial calls. So, share your thoughts openly; it helps build a strong foundation.
While speaking, the matchmaker will take notes to understand your profile better. Be honest and open in your responses. For example, if you dislike long-distance relationships, let them know. This candor aids the matchmaker in finding better matches aligned with what you truly want.
The Follow-Up Process
After your call, you’ll receive a form that includes more comprehensive questions about your preferences and lifestyle. Making sure this form is filled out accurately is vital. The matchmaker needs all the information about you to correctly match you with someone who would be compatible with you.
Submitting this form enriches the matchmaking database, allowing the matchmaker to start the real work of finding potential partners for you. Remember, both the initial call and the form are cornerstones of your matchmaking experience, laying the groundwork for future interactions.
Why This Step Matters
You might wonder why this 15-minute call carries such importance. This short interaction is about more than gathering basic information; it’s the start of a relationship between you and the matchmaker. They will become your partner in the quest for a marriage partner.
Additionally, the matchmaker will assess your communication style during this call. They can gauge your personality to find matches who will compliment you. This foundational step makes sure the matches you receive are compatible in more than just common interests and values.
Moving Forward with Confidence
Your initial 15-minute matchmaker call plays a crucial role in your journey toward love. It’s your introduction, an opportunity to express your desires, and a chance to build a strong relationship with your matchmaker.
By going into this call prepared and open, you set yourself up for a fruitful matchmaking experience. As you move ahead, remember that this is just the start. The insights gathered during your call, along with the completed form, will guide your matchmaker in connecting you with the right people. Embrace this phase of your journey and look forward to the exciting possibilities that lie ahead.
After the call, you will be sent an intensive questionaire. The questionaire will take some time to fill out. Completing the first call lets the matchmaker know that you are serious about finding your marriage mate.
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